i’m learning that you can prevent heartbreak by letting go of expectations. having preconceived notions of how people should be, how things should turn out, and when things should happen interferes with the flow of things.
i’m learning that it’s better to go into every situation with the idea that you will accept things the way they are. if the situation is not in alignment with what you truly want, then you move on. but what breaks you is when you apply force to the experience.